You don’t want this to be a bad experience for you or the other participants

The decision to participate in a gang bang should not be taken lightly; you need to make sure you’re in the right mental state to get the most out of it.

1. Being the center of attention. It’s an awesome feeling to be lost in a sea of other people using you for their sexual pleasure.
2. The challenge. Some people like to challenge themselves sexually and a gang bang is the ultimate challenge most people will ever face.
3. Exploring Your Slutty Side. Group sex is a big taboo in our society, so many people get a rush from indulging in a sex act that is seen as the ultimate in slutty acts.

If you’re overly concerned that people are going to think you’re a slut (if you consider that a negative), or if you’re not 100% emotionally confident with your decision to engage in a gang bang, you should hold off until those are no longer issues.

As a general rule, if you’ve not experienced group sex before, it’s probably a good idea to start off small and see how you function in a group dynamic

If you’re unsure about whether or not a gang bang is something you wish to do, one option you may wish to consider is serving as a fluffer at someone else’s fuckfest. This will allow you to observe what happens through the actual bang itself and give you a feel for what it’s like. At that point you can make a decision about becoming the guest of honor in your own special event.

If you have a spouse, life partner, or significant other, you’re obviously going to need to take his/her feelings into consideration. This is NOT something you want to hide from a partner – the after effects and potential ramifications are far too great to do that for most people.

Some partners will not care (and perhaps might even encourage participation in a bang), but others may have some issues knowing or watching a partner be used by multiple other people; that’s just human nature. You need to discuss your desires with your partner and get him/her on board from the outset. It is essential that the two of you be secure in your relationship and arrive at a mutual understanding of feelings associated with the event.

In some cases, the partner may wish to participate, either as a banger or monitor. Assuming they’re comfortable with your participation in the gang bang, significant others make excellent monitors since they’re usually rather familiar with you emotionally and physically and are in a better position to notice problems in those areas.

If you are the partner of a potential guest of honor, be supportive, especially from an emotional standpoint. She’s liable to be very anxious about the event and you should help alleviate some of this by letting her know that you’re behind her and will do what you can to help her through it.

Gang bangs are typically high-energy, rougher, more athletically oriented sexual events, usually much more so than the standard single-partnered or threesome sex

For many, their first gang bang starts out small, with perhaps 4 or 5 men participating with the center, quite often acquaintances of the center herself. In other cases, the bang is set up for a dozen or more men. Some porn stars have taken on hundreds of men in a single session.

If that works well for you, you can always do it again with a larger group. There’s always the chance that it may not be the experience you think it will be, and crashing with a smaller group together2night is a lot less painful for all concerned.